I should never be allowed to write when tired or hungover. Nice sentiment, but it is so gushy it makes me want to barf. Nice guess btw, B_E_G. You are very intuitive.
NY on hold. They taxed the crap out of my bonus & it's about $200 less than I thought. I also got dinged (will get dinged) by some bank fees because I wrote a check (FUCKING AGAIN) for Zoe's dad's share of the daycare. It cleared and a few other items cleared at the same time & I will now be charged $90 in fees. Dammit, it's all in the order of how my items hit my account - the bonus & my paycheck cleared after these 3 small items. I mean I was only like -$20. But 3 items went in the red at $30 a piece. I had a check in my purse I forgot to deposit too for some holiday stamps for the work Christmas cards. Yay... Merry Fucking Christmas.
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Zoe's dad's tab is starting to add up. I wonder if it would be worth it to go all out divorce & have his share of the daycare automatically taken out.
pros
I would get my money
He wouldn't count on me covering his ass
I wouldn't have to cover his ass
I wouldn't have to argue with him over this shit
I wouldn't have to face the daycare owner (and be humiliated) because we owe her money
I really seriously think he's doing drugs or gambling & is losing his money (a friend of ours sold him some cookies for his kids school & she told me his check bounced) I don't need to deal with his crap anymore.
cons
I would have to start on my own insurance plan at work - it sucks & is expensive - about the same amount as what he gives me, so it would all cancel out.
The insurance plan from my job is really bad. Big out of pocket expenses and they don't cover as much of my preventative care for diabetes (eye checks, blood work)
anyway, I need to get ready for work. I was just checking out my bank account.
I hope this day gets better.
I'm sure it has to