July 29, 2004

Bling

Dad approval - check
Heartfelt - check
Love - check
Sweetness - check
Tears - check
Kisses - check

And if I knew how to post pictures ... in a little while ... I could post a picture of ... drum roll ...

*blush**gush**mush*

My engagement ring.

It's being reset and resized. Marquise diamond in a white gold setting. It's amazing. I was surprised at how lovely it was. When he gave it to me it was in a gold setting, but he knew that I wanted something to match my other jewelry. So he took it to the jeweler and got a brand new setting. I feel so spoiled. But he's adorable. I'm still in shock.

And before you flip your gourd, I know I'm not getting married for a few years maybe three. I know we've only known eachother for about six months. But I adore him. Every day he amazes me. Man, when it's good it's great. When it's great, it's unbelievable.

We sat down the other day and wrote out two pages of goals we want to achieve together and individually. It's the first time I've really felt like a partnership or team with my sig. other, you know? Like we can do anything because we have eachother. I know it's really dorky, but it feels totally powerful. And safe.

Because I know he can achieve so much. And so far, he is. His career is going so well. He's making an amazing amount of contacts. His food is awesome. He keeps getting more gigs through work. He says he's inspired. *smile*

My list had more to do with healing my back and myself. And more quality time with Zoe (who is getting so grown up. I'll have to dedicate a few entries to that lovely baby). Possibly also buying a new car by the end of the year.

Anyway, I have a ton of work to finish. Just wanted to spill it before I burst.

Peace and Paraguay to you all. (hey, it was the first P I saw on my world map)

Much love.


[sort of aside]My poor sweetie. He was going to propose at the Boney James concert last Friday, but knew that I had said I'd be embarrassed if he proposed in front of our friends. So he called it off. He had it all lined up and everything with the band dudes. My dad was there. It was an amazing concert.

I had a total feeling he was going to do it. He looked so sentimental and hiding a major secret. But he didn't know if he should or not. I kind of wish he had done it. I didn't know anyone there so I could have bawled my head off in front of like 3,000 people. Would have been a good story.

So instead he proposed to me sweetly and simply in my sister's living room with my friend Shutterbug hiding in the kitchen. It was heartfelt, but I think he did it just to get it over with. Which is funny because he's the most creative and romantic man I've ever met. No mind. The first time he proposed was totally amazing and spontaneous. It's secret so I can't give the details but would make a wonderful scene in a movie. Anyway, I'm thinking the third time will be the charm. The story to tell our grandkids, ya know?

Regardless, I get the dude in the end. Just like the movies *yipee* And that's all that matters.[aside over]

And my man ... Well let's just say the one thing that is for sure about our wedding is that he's gonna wear a KILT. I love it. Love love love it.

(Special love and hugs to my girl, Shutterbug. I'm so glad you are in my life. I'm so glad I have you as a friend. If you ever need anything, I'm here for you. Bring the cutie pies over this weekend)

Posted by debutaunt at July 29, 2004 11:46 AM | TrackBack
Comments

Congrats! Much luck and love to you and your future mate. Keep us posted!

Posted by: Dano at July 29, 2004 12:38 PM

Hey girly! How girly! Congratulations and I wish you both the best.

Thorn

Posted by: Thorn at July 29, 2004 01:27 PM

Congrats, indeed.
When people complain that they didn't get to or get asked to get married 'prefectly'. I always tell them about having to ask MLW to marry with a video tape and mailing the engagement ring. Romantic, NOT!
Good for you and Chef.
"Hot, salty, balls" South Park

Posted by: Pat at July 29, 2004 02:26 PM

Deb& Chef!

I love your guys and no two people deserve more happiness then the two of you. You have had your highs and even some lows. Through it all you have remained strong a true testament to your love. I wish you nothing but the best in the future. I love you guys!

Cindy

Posted by: heartty heart at July 29, 2004 04:55 PM

AAAAAAAHHHHH! I KNEW it! I KNEW it! Congrats sweetie! I'm so happy for you and Cheffy.

Way to join me in the engagement boat. Now we can be girly together!

And thanks for the ear prayers, btw. :-))

Woohoo for you and Cheffy!!!!

Laura

Posted by: Laura at July 30, 2004 10:38 AM

WOOO! Congrats...wasn't expected that when I finally checked your blog after a few months.

Bring on the pic!

Heart,
Katie

Posted by: L D/KT at July 30, 2004 07:30 PM

Deb, I'm so damned happy and proud for you! :) Congratulations, sweetie. And I agree - bring on the pictures!

Always,
Gypsy

Posted by: Gypsy at July 31, 2004 11:17 PM