If I know you in real life, and you read stuff here you don't approve of, can you please keep your fucking mouth shut instead of telling me how shitty of a mom I am and saying that you are "concerned?"
I'm a whore. Right. You called it. I am in love with a man who doesn't want a proper relationship, so that's horrible, right? Just like with Dr. Egypt.
There is no Mr. Right. Because I'm a big loser with no self esteem and everyone hates me.
I need a break from everything right about now.
Posted by debutaunt at March 23, 2005 10:44 PMHang in there girl. I don't think you are a bad mom at all. I know that Zoe had a wonderful time at her party and there were a lot of people there that care and were there for her and you as well. Unfortunately we can't control what other people do or say so don't let it get to you. Let it just roll off your back. And if your guy is making you happy - who's to say it's wrong? As long as you both know where you stand and are both happy with your relationship - then go for it. It's one of the things I have been struggling with myself. It's hard feeling like everyone is judging you all time. When you put yourself out there like that unfortunately you will get judged. People think they know you. I don't think anyone ever really knows someone - there is always something that is held back or not made known. From what I know of you I think you do pretty well. Love ya girlie!
Posted by: Julie at March 24, 2005 08:53 AMHang in there Deb - we all have to make our own way through this world and we get to do it on our terms. I see plenty of evidence that you love your daughter, you're a good mom, and you aren't hurting anyone; it seems to me that people need to direct their concerns elsewhere and mind their own business because all they're doing it causing hurt and creating harm.
Posted by: Cursingmama at March 24, 2005 12:20 PM