Today is my dad's 8th anniversary of being a Deacon in the Catholic church. Say what you want about organized religion, but I think someone who decides to dedicate their life to God's service is pretty amazing. Especially when you don't get paid for it.
My dad is a very special, sometimes complicated, person. He would give you the shirt off of his back (and literally I have heard of him giving someone a watch right off his wrist). He does so much for so many people. Especially Zoe and me. He's often selfless, sometimes at his own expense. And I do wish sometimes that others would buy *him* breakfast instead of the other way around!!
Dad had a pretty hard life growning up, but that's never stopped him from striving to do the greater good. My entire life I've never worried about not having food to eat or having a roof over our heads. I've watched my dad work hard every day. He was in the Air Force for over 20 years and then worked another decade or so at the Air Force base here in San Antonio as a contractor. He's worked so hard. And I don't know many men who can say they have seven kids that are all college graduates. (yes, mom had something to do with that too).
Dad's beyond generous with his money and his time. He works six days a week and is always headed off to a funeral, baptism, mass, wedding or a meeting for our church. At any given time, we will be eating (or meeting) with one of our priests or nuns or parishoners.
I know no one is perfect, but when I watch my dad work, I know he tries really hard to be as Christ-like as possible. He has such joy during mass, especially at the end when he says, "GO IN PEACE TO LOVE AND SERVE THE LORD." When he does Zoe's school masses, he also high fives the kids on the way down the aisle.
I've always been proud to be Deacon Debu's_Dad's daughter. But especially today.
Happy Anniversary, Dad. We love you very very much.
Posted by debutaunt at September 12, 2007 08:40 AMWhat a great post and a great tribute to your dad. Happy anniversary Deacon Debu's Dad!
Posted by: Sharkey at September 12, 2007 05:22 PMI'm celebrating with you, Deb. Not only for your Dad's service in what can be a very demanding role but for him personally.
Whosoever will be great among you, let him be your minister. Your deacon, servant. Greatness in the kingdom of heaven consists in doing, rather than in being, and in doing for others, rather than for self. Greatness is to be found in service. Only those men are truly great who are the servants of their race, helpers of mankind.
Go, Debu's_Dad, go. And thank you for blessing your community, your church, your family and us, too.
Posted by: Bren/Cody'sMom at September 12, 2007 08:55 PMWell that's it. I'm going to have to meet this pops of yours.
Posted by: Kami at September 13, 2007 07:41 AMI forgot to include the 'address' for the verse I quoted. It's Matthew 20:26.
Posted by: Bren/Cody'sMom at September 13, 2007 05:29 PMAwwww. I miss me some Debu_Daddy!!!
Posted by: Mewcat at September 14, 2007 07:38 AMThe world is blessed to have a Debu_Dad.
Posted by: Claire at September 14, 2007 09:11 PM