[Every single one of the posts on this blog were typed and written by Deb. Except this one. She died on May 18, 2009, peacefully and no longer in pain, with family and friends by her side. I wish I could write that less abruptly, but that's what happened, and there is no easy way to say it.
I'm Sis#1 in the blog, and throughout Deb's illness, I'd ask her if she would want me to type an update. She'd always refuse, saying she wanted to do it herself when she felt better. She wrote some amazing things, even when she was in a lot of pain and taking a lot of medication.
She finally asked me to update the blog for her after doctors told her that she was certain to die. We talked a lot about what she wanted to say, and she had a lot of pent up things because she hadn't been able to post in a while.
If you follow this blog, you'd see that Deb was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia in October 2005, had a stem cell transplant in February 2006 but then suffered a relapse of her leukemia in November 2008. She had been continuously in the hospital since Thanksgiving until her death, and in the ICU since December and then moved to a rehabilitation hospital ICU in February to see if they could wean her off the respirator, remove the tracheotomy, and get her able to move, and get out of the bed.
Eventually, the doctors informed us that Debby wasn't going to be able to get off the respirator, that her organs were struggling from massive infection and that she had developed a new form of leukemia, chronic monocytic leukemia. As I understood it, the new leukemia was likely a result of the massive DNA damage that occurred during the first treatment that put her acute leukemia in remission.
When Deb was given the information that rehabilitation wasn't going to work, that she was never going to leave the hospital and all hope to get her old life back was totally gone, she request the focus of her care be more on comfort than fighting, signed the Do Not Resuscitate order and prepared to die.
What a difficult thing. To be there in mind, trapped in a painful, failed body, waiting for a death. But, during this time, she thought of her online friends from both close and far away, and she wanted to give you a final blog post that shared her views. So here it is. The following may not *sound* exactly like her because it's hard to read lips but it is certainly her views. In her last days, she dreamed of walking and running, and you could see her legs moving as she slept even though she barely moved when she was awake. I'm not sure what she is doing now, but it certainly has nothing to do with being confined to a bed.
Immeasurable thanks to all for being with her on her journey in whatever way you were able. You have no idea how much it helped. -Steph/Sis#1]
Deb's Last Blog Post:
I am writing this blog post to say a more proper goodbye to all the interweb peoples who have helped me keep it together. Who have given so much support to me through the years. Who are my friends and family. Who were strangers who became friends.
In my blog, I often give assignments for people to do. Here's the ones that are on my mind....
1. Appreciate everything. Even stupid stuff. Since I've been sick, I've communicated with a number of service members abroad. We understand each other well because we both know how much we miss just the normal stuff that most people take for granted. Driving. Driving in traffic. Complaining about stupid stuff is for people who have no idea how good they have it.
2. Be a force for good. There's enough bad stuff in the world without adding to it. Forgive people and leave grudges for others. Do kind things just because. Figure out what you are good at and do good with it.
3. Seek a higher power. I believe Jesus Christ is my savior and this gives me comfort. As it takes faith to believe, it takes faith not to believe. I believe God doesn't want us to live our lives on an island, and that finding a community of faith that is uplifting and supportive to you can make a huge difference in your life. If you have that cool. If you don't, consider it. But don't wait until you are looking death in the eye because you will miss out on some neat things. (Love you ACTS community!)
4. If you have kids, squeeze them. And then squeeze them again. Give yourself a pat on the back if you are responsible and work hard to give your children a good life and better opportunities. Sometimes you don't give yourself enough credit. If you have people in your life that you love, tell them that. Often. Don't save your I love you's for a rainy day.
5. Take care of yourself. I understand more than most that there are injuries and illnesses that you can't prevent by eating well and moving, but that doesn't mean you should be fatalistic. Nothing like being hooked up to a respirator to make you appreciate just getting going, doing and breathing. Treat yourself at least as well as you treat your car--you put the right type of fuel in your car and you drive it safely most of the time--you are more important than a car so treat yourself that way.
6. Enjoy life. Life is meant to be enjoyed, and as long as it isn't hurting yourself or others, go for it. Bring joy to others. Find passions in your life that make you want to get out of bed in the morning, unless your passion is sleeping and then go ahead and sleep in.
7. Be open to new things. Listen. Doesn't mean you have to change your mind, but who knows, you might learn something.
8. Support sensible health insurance reform. I'm not sure what that ends up looking like, but injuries and illnesses shouldn't fate people into a life of insurmountable debt and bill collectors. I spent the last “healthy” months of my pre-hospital stay, worried and scrambling to find insurance because my COBRA insurance ran out. Patients should be able to focus on getting better and not crushingly large mountains of papers telling them that their credit is forever screwed.
9. Ask for help. This is a hard assignment. For a lot of people, it isn't easy to ask for help when you need it. But what I've discovered is that it is a part of the human condition for people to want to help those in need. People enjoy helping others. Sometimes you get help where you don't really expect it. So if you need help with something, go to the appropriate people and get it.
I sometimes think that the bad stuff that happens in life is one of the few things that bring people together. It still sucks, but maybe it sucks a little less.
There are too many people to thank for the help they gave me and my family over these difficult times. I would list you individually but am afraid I would leave someone important out. My last days have not been easy at all, but it has been a great comfort to know about all those who gave me prayers and love.
In my life, I've looked for love in a lot of wrong places, and as I die, it is nice to know I am surrounded by love.
10. Last assignment. There is no last assignment. You create your own assignments every day. Choose wisely.
However, my last assignment that I give to you is to take care of my 9 year old daughter Zoe the best you can. I love Zkat from infinity and beyond. I just am trying my hardest with what I can do from this stinkin bed to help her. I know she will be taken good care of in a house full of love, but I feel pain that I can't be physically with her any more to prepare her for a happy, long and healthy life.
My friend Dan set up a college fund for Zoe recently, and I can't tell you how happy this makes me. If you are feeling it, I'd appreciate any donations of any size. Long time readers know it is no fun for me to ask for money, but I would do anything for my sweet bird talker.
To sum it all up....I love you internets! I love you friends! I love you family! I love you Zoe!
All my love,
Deb
[Okay, this is Sis#1 again. Apologies for the delay in posting this, but as you can imagine, this was a little difficult to type based on all my hand written notes that I took over weeks talking with Debby. More emotionally difficult than physically. At the time of her death, her blog software says that she had written 1440 entries and had 9646 comments. Who knows how many lives she touched in a positive way.
If you want to know more about my fabulous sister, please check out mem.com - Deborah Greer-Costello. If you would like to donate money for Zoe's college fund, you can either click on the DONATE Paypal link on this blog which is still active, or if you want to do it directly, please send contributions to: The Financial Advisory Group, Inc.; c/o David Jenkins; 5599 San Felipe, Suite 900; Houston, TX 77056. Please make out the checks to "College America" and in the memo field write "FBO: Zoe Costello."
At the request of many people, at some point I hope to post here a list of songs on Deb's iPod. She listened to that at home, in doctors' waiting rooms and clinics and the many months in the hospital. It's an interesting mix, and would be good to share. -S]
Posted by debutaunt at May 28, 2009 01:06 PMMy heart smiled. My eyes cried.
My condolences for your families loss and my congratulations on having such a wonderful sister.
Posted by: Kelsey at May 28, 2009 02:30 PMGod bless you all. What beauty.
Posted by: jennifer at May 28, 2009 03:02 PMThis was absolutely beautiful. I wish I had gotten the opportunity to meet Deb. Jennifer, May God Bless You and Your Family and hold you close during these challenging times. Make TODAY Your Greatest!
Posted by: Lonnie Robinson at May 28, 2009 03:24 PMThank you so much!!
Posted by: Missy at May 28, 2009 03:44 PMI am so deeply sorry for the loss of your sister.
Her final post is so poignant and beautiful. Words to live by. Thank you for sharing it with us.
Posted by: Cindy at May 28, 2009 03:55 PMThanks Steph (and, of course, Debby).
Posted by: Bro #2 at May 28, 2009 04:00 PMThank you for sharing her last "assignments". I will do my best.
Posted by: Tutu at May 28, 2009 04:18 PMThank you, Steph, for posting this.
When reading Deb's words, I was thrilled to realize that many of her assignments I had already internalized... And this just goes to show that she was extremely influential in life, and I am certain she will continue to be so now that she is free from pain...
When I manage to stop crying, I'm sure I'll be back. But thank you so much for sharing...
Light and Love... x13.
Posted by: shayna at May 28, 2009 04:40 PMI learned more about living while Deb was dying. Each night I set with her was more rewarding than the last. I came to love her so much. I miss her each and every day. She touched my heart and my soul. Reading this was like getting to talk with her one more time. Thank you for I know this was not easy for you.
Posted by: Linda Ingram at May 28, 2009 05:05 PMThank you so much for posting this, I can't imagine how hard it must have been. I'm bawling just reading it. Deb was truly wonderful and I look forward to seeing her, healthy and whole, in Heaven with Jesus someday.
Posted by: Mainline Mom at May 28, 2009 05:59 PMThank you so much.
Posted by: shyvonneh at May 28, 2009 07:23 PMThank you so much for sharing. I kept up with Deb through her blogs and through HC. Her strength of character and Faith are an inspiration. My prayers are continuing for your family.
Denise Larkins
aka Legs4miles
Just when the crying subsided and the mourning eased a weeee bit, my Debu_Hero speaks to my heart once again---this time from beyond the grave---and my eyes well up with tears and my heart heaves with great sadness. I miss her!
She is better off, I know that. Just let me have my selfish moment as I scream inside, "I MISS YOU DEB~ !"
Tears are getting in the way of me typing and I must close for now.
Thank you sis for sharing Deb's last words with us. Thank you.
~Nita
Posted by: Nita at May 28, 2009 09:12 PMWhen I first heard Deb passed, I heard an REM song in my head for two lines:
"I picture you in the sun... may God's love be with you always."
Bye Deb. My life is richer for having you in it.
Posted by: Angie at May 29, 2009 07:49 AMWhen I first heard Deb passed, I heard an REM song in my head for two lines:
"I picture you in the sun... may God's love be with you always."
Bye Deb. My life is richer for having you in it.
Posted by: Angie at May 29, 2009 07:50 AMJust thank you xxx
Posted by: annash at May 29, 2009 07:59 AMSo this is Deb's Opus. And what a fine piece of work it is. Thanks, Steph, for posting something that must have been so very difficult to write.
I keep a diary, and my new 18 month version arrived this morning. I think I shall summarise Deb's assignments there, in the front pages, to remind me of all the good things I will be doing over the coming months.
Much love to the Debu-clan.
Posted by: Pixi at May 29, 2009 09:16 AMWe were blessed.
xo+
Posted by: Skye at May 29, 2009 09:23 AMI never thought I'd see another update from Debutaunt on my Blogger feed. This was unexpected, but definitely welcomed.
I think I'm going to print this up and hang it on my refrigerator, as a daily reminder to myself to not let the little things in life freak me out so much. Deb was very wise.
Love to her family,
Jess in Chicago
Thank you so much for the last blog. You did a great job with it. Deb taught all of us a lot through the years. The last assignments were perfect. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Posted by: Gloria at May 29, 2009 11:04 AMi don't think i realized how much deb's assignments touched me until i read this post.
thank you, steph, for writing this.
my heart is with zoe. i can only imagine how hard it was for deb to leave her bird talker. my son is the same age as zoe and i wish she could have had her mama longer.
xomox
Posted by: moxiemomma at May 29, 2009 03:23 PMA perfect assignment from an angelic teacher :) Love you, Deb.
Posted by: Allison Sattinger at May 29, 2009 09:55 PMThank you Steph for posting this. Deb's words, as always, are powerful and ring true. I think that someday, when Zoe is ready, this collection of writings ... yes, even the early days ... will be a real treasure for her.
I've been reading your flickr updates but don't have a flickr account so haven't been commenting. Many thanks to you for keeping us updated and my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Having been through a similar experience - I lost my big sister to cancer on Christmas Day 2003 - I can imagine a bit of what you have gone through and are going through now. Time does heal some of the wounds. Take care of yourself, and don't let anyone tell you how you should feel or not feel. Just be, and Deb, God and time will take care of you.
Posted by: Nathalie at May 30, 2009 06:04 AMA true demonstration of being our Debu-hero for all eternity.
Posted by: Lori at May 30, 2009 07:19 AMThank you for this. A few of her online friends and I were wanting to do something as a 'tribute' to Deb, and we have come up with an idea to create a Twitter page in her honor, with daily assignments. Please email me jana5522@yahoo.com as we would like to have your blessing. Deb was such an amazing person and we are all touched by knowing her.
Posted by: jana at May 31, 2009 09:08 AMThank you for this. A few of her online friends and I were wanting to do something as a 'tribute' to Deb, and we have come up with an idea to create a Twitter page in her honor, with daily assignments. Please email me jana5522@yahoo.com as we would like to have your blessing. Deb was such an amazing person and we are all touched by knowing her.
Posted by: jana at May 31, 2009 09:09 AMMy heart is crying. Rest in peace Deb. May God always bless Zoe and the rest of the family.
I wish i would have met Deb in person...
I've met her in spirit... Thank you sis for the last post... Blessings... Lorenzo
Deb and I became friends at St. Edward's University. Deb was always good for a laugh -- she didn't care if she was the one making us all laugh or laughing herself. She was one of kind, a good egg that I will never forget!
Amy
Reading this I had one thought that came to mind - You Greer girls are made of sterner stuff than I.
Thanks for sharing this, Stephanie. I know it had to be very difficult to write and post. And watching you little sister's pain couldn't be an easy thing. God bless you and your family.
Posted by: Patrick at June 2, 2009 09:42 AMI will do my best, Deb, to carry out your final assignments. I am honored to have known you through your blog and witness your courage and your determination to live all your days to the fullest.
Thank you, Stephanie for being the conduit for Deb and her Internets so that we could follow her journey when she was too frail to communicate with us. Your family is indeed, as one commenter said, made of sterner stuff. May the love you all share for each other comfort you in the years to come.
Posted by: Loretta at June 11, 2009 09:34 PMI got two beautiful cards from your folks a couple of days ago, Deb. I stood there next to my PO Box and just sobbed in gratitude.
I miss you. I am so thankful to know that a piece of me was with you there at the end... They didn't have to tell me that. But they did. And I am glad.
I love you.
Posted by: shayna at June 18, 2009 08:26 PMI come here pretty much every day, sometimes twice. It's a habit. I know you are in heaven. I know you aren't physically coming back here. I am still convincing myself of that...
Posted by: Elizabeth at June 20, 2009 11:30 PMGod bless you, Deb.
My love and condolences to you all, especially Zoe.
Elizabeth, I know just how you feel...
Posted by: Patrick at June 23, 2009 08:21 AMPatrick (hugs) and the rest of you that still come here (hugs)..Deb made a lasting impact on my life. Patrick..just more hugs.
Elizabeth
Posted by: Elizabeth at June 24, 2009 01:18 AMI come back here every once in a while to read the archives. It reminds me of things I forgot. And I can *hear* Debby talk. It makes me happy and sad at the same time. I'm guessing if you are reading this, you know what I mean. Thanks to all of you who've been so cool.
-Steph
Debby,
Today... I am missing you especially.
Posted by: sis #2 at June 27, 2009 07:24 PMDebby,
Today... I am missing you especially.
Posted by: sis #2 at June 27, 2009 07:24 PMHard to believe it's been a month. Thinking about you Deb, and your little bird talker. God Bless Her and you.
Posted by: Lorraine at June 29, 2009 12:44 AMSis #1 and #2:
Many of us still visit this site. And we always will I think.
She lives on through her written word...and what writtin word it was! IS! Sooo much talent...so fortunate for me to have had her grace my life.
~Nita
Posted by: nita at July 2, 2009 03:50 AMI love to come here and read the archives too. I miss her!! Never really "met" her but sure enjoyed coming here!
TXRosebud
...I will always remember you Deb. I will continue to fight this Leukemia (A.L.L.PH+) we both got diagnosed with. I prayed for Zoe & your family this morning....
We all miss you... Lorenzo
...I will always remember you Deb. I will continue to fight this Leukemia (A.L.L.PH+) we both got diagnosed with. I prayed for Zoe & your family this morning....
We all miss you... Lorenzo
I found deb's blog through a random google search.
Her intellegent, sarcastic writing style hooked me instantly.
The internet is amazing in the way it can bring strangers together. Deb was clearly an amazing person, based on the little bit of her I got through the blog. I'm sure those of you that knew her personally know the full range of how amazing a person she was.
I'm sorry for your loss, and wish all the best for Zoe.
Posted by: Gurn at July 12, 2009 12:30 PMI found deb's blog through a random google search.
Her intellegent, sarcastic writing style hooked me instantly.
The internet is amazing in the way it can bring strangers together. Deb was clearly an amazing person, based on the little bit of her I got through the blog. I'm sure those of you that knew her personally know the full range of how amazing a person she was.
I'm sorry for your loss, and wish all the best for Zoe.
Posted by: Gurn at July 12, 2009 12:30 PMMore thoughts, more tears. Missing her and smiles when I think of her and believe she's behind me cracking a funny joke! I just love her sense of humor! Miss you always, Deb!
Posted by: Denise at July 16, 2009 04:33 PM...I was asked to start a blog by someone. I never blogged before. The only blog i ever followed was Debbie's. I started a blog today. I have the same type of Leukemia as Debbie. (A.L.L.PH+). If anyone is interested in seeing it... you can go to: lorenzo43.blogspot.com
...I'm new at this and i am learning as i go along. I will always remember Debbie...
Zoe & the family are in my prayers... Lorenzo
Lorenzo,
May God give you strength and peace for your fight, give you doctors wisdom for you treatment and your cancer the boot for good measure. You are in my prayers.
Patrick.
Posted by: Patrick at July 22, 2009 07:02 AMHard to believe you're gone, Deb... Thinking of you on this day that should have been one of celebration. I will celebrate extra-big tomorrow when my little boy turns 7... L&L...
Posted by: shayna at July 22, 2009 05:29 PMLorenzo-
I send positive thoughts, and an abundance of hope to you. Continue to fight the good fight!
Love,
Skye
Happy Birthday, dear Deb. My thoughts were with you on the 22nd.
Much love and the fondest of memories,
Skye xo+
Damnit, Deb. I know you can no longer read my words, I know you will never know I wrote to you or about you, anymore. But you know what happened yesterday? I was on the site where we met, reading old stuff, and danged if I didn't start to reply to something you'd said eons ago. It wasn't even one of those replies that's really meant for everyone, I was talking to *you*, love. Just as I was about to post it, I realized what I'd done. I just sat there, staring at the screen, wondering what on earth I'd been thinking... then burst into tears. It just seems so wrong for you to be gone, to not be bantering with us, to not be an active part of our lives anymore. I miss your presence, Deb, and my heart aches for your family - especially your little girl. I will continue to pray for them, for their peace of heart. I know you can't read this, Deb, but I just felt I had to tell you, anyway.
-Gypsy
Posted by: Gypsy at July 24, 2009 12:01 AMDeb, your sisters kick ass, too. But you already knew that. I love and miss you.
Posted by: shayna at July 30, 2009 11:26 PMTo Deb's family, my heart goes out to all of you. What a wonderful person you have lost; but the goodness she has left behind to all of you is such a gift.
I came across this website via the article on Kenechi Udeze. I read it because my 20-year old son developed AML this past February, had induction chemo (and consolidation chemo) in March and April; then had a stem-cell transplant on June 12th. He handled the sten-cell transplant very well and hasn't had any GVHD (which, actually is not a good thing). His AML has a poor prognosis and we are trying to find out if anything more can be done proactively to increase his odds against a relapse.
Anyway, I just wanted to let you know how touching Deb's story was and thank you for the very nice article you wrote, Stephanie.
Posted by: Diane at July 31, 2009 05:08 PMI knew Deb. We weren't close or anything, but her friend introduced me to her in 2004. She was funny and made me laugh. I check in on this blog a few times a year and I was shocked to learn of her death.
God bless Deb and God bless little Zoe.
Gypsy:
Your words touched me, much like Deb's. I don't know you but I want to give you many hugs. I have tears rolling down my face from reading what you wrote, from missing our Debu_Hero and for thinking, "Wow, if it's hit us this hard, just IMAGINE how the family is coping."
I'd like to add one tiny correction to your post if I may: Deb can most definitely see/hear/feel everything you wrote.
God bless all who come to this site for comfort and joyous remembrances.
~Nita
Posted by: ~nita at August 8, 2009 01:31 AMStill miss you Deb. I know you'd be thrilled to hear we're having a baby. I didn't think it would ever happen again after so much chemo. Maybe you put in a good word for me with the Big Man Upstairs. Your spirit lives on and your friends' love for you did not go to the grave.
Rachel Y.
Posted by: Rachel Y. at August 28, 2009 09:07 PMJust missed you today and thought I'd stop by to re-read your wisdom and humor - I know you must be checking your comments from heaven :)
xoxoxoxoxoxoxox
Thought of you today Deb...as my day unfolded it was hectic and full of impatience and intolerance; idiot drivers ahead of me were enraging me, yadda yadda yadda. Then YOU popped into my thoughts. It put everything into perspective; I calmed down, became reflective, and ironed out the wrinkles that threatened to set the tone for the day. I got your message :) and completed my assignment as directed.
Love you and still thinkin' of how awesome you are,
xxooo
~Nita
Just wondering...and in case I missed it through this wall of tears....did sis ever post Deb's iPod music selection? I'd love to know what made Deb happy. Music-wise anyway....
Posted by: ~nita at September 10, 2009 09:15 PMHere's another "just wondering" one for the sisters.......how is Zoe?
Posted by: marcia at September 13, 2009 08:31 AMMissing you today very much my dear friend.
Posted by: d1 at October 5, 2009 11:51 AMI come here when I just need to quietly 'be'. I draw comfort and strength from your words. I am so grateful to have 'known' your grace and your serenity.
My thoughts and love are with Zoe and your family.
You will be remembered always, Deb.
S. xo+
Posted by: Skye at October 15, 2009 08:58 AMJust wonderin' (again) --- Steph, where are you? I hope you come back here to check on us internets as sometimes we have questions (her IPod music for one :o) ) and sometimes we're here for no other reason than to touch base and keep Deb's memory alive. Damn I miss her!
Posted by: Nita at October 18, 2009 08:04 PMI'd hoped to not commemorate this date for you, Deb for many many years. But on this, the Dia de los Muertos, know that you are in my thoughts, your family and soul and my prayers and you're still missed. God Bless You.
Posted by: Patrick at November 2, 2009 09:36 AMI used to anticipate your posts for the comfort and courage they gave me. I need to post your last blog on my wall and read it every morning. Your words are a plethora of energy and nourishment to my heart and I can't thank you enough, Deb-u-rocker!
I think we should have a yearly party in your honor. Hope you're rocking it on a cloud somewhere and reading this comment section! We all miss you very much.
Posted by: Courtney at November 3, 2009 10:02 PMI used to anticipate your posts for the comfort and courage they gave me. I need to post your last blog on my wall and read it every morning. Your words are a plethora of energy and nourishment to my heart and I can't thank you enough, Deb-u-rocker!
I think we should have a yearly party in your honor. Hope you're rocking it on a cloud somewhere and reading this comment section! We all miss you very much.
Posted by: Courtney at November 3, 2009 10:02 PMnow I see it!
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That said... people please check out my website inspired by Deb (she is the pink throughout the site.) Music by Allison Sattinger "Oh Life" Allision wrote that song after reading Deb's blog... think of Deb when you here the song and I defy you to keep a dry eye.
I love Debby a lot, and I miss her immensely.
Oh yeah, my site: jennawhidby.com
Please don't feel afraid to say hi to me... being her close younger sister, we always used to share the same friends.
Posted by: sis #2 at November 23, 2009 10:24 PMMerry Christmas Deb, I know you are still reading this
Posted by: hodabe at December 20, 2009 09:37 AMGod bless you all.
Posted by: Mary at February 17, 2010 01:31 AMDeb...
I'm thinking about you a lot.
Posted by: sis #2 at March 27, 2010 04:03 PMI can't believe that it has been almost a year since Deb passed away. I didn't know her personally, but I still remember her spunk and humour. Wherever you are Deb, I hope you are having a great ole time.
Posted by: Lorraine at May 10, 2010 06:37 PMOh dearest Deb - I can't believe its been a year already. I miss you so much and think of you often. I know Heaven is so much more beautiful with you there.
Dearest family of Deb - am still praying for you all. Big hugs
Lisa O
Deb, even a year gone, you and Zoe are still in my thoughts.
Posted by: Patrick at May 19, 2010 12:59 PMHas it really been over a year? :-(
I never knew you, Deb, but read your blog for years - you won't be forgotten :-(
"Life" got in the way.......I stopped reading most blogs....It's been about a year or so....I think to myself...."Wonder what Deb's doin?.......not even considering....so i google her.........only to read the sad news. Not only do i want to kick myself in the ass for not checking back sooner, but i want to kick myself for letting "Life and it's busy-busy-busy ways" get in the path of me checking in. I'm sorry to hear about Deb. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. xoxoxo
Posted by: kheatherg at June 18, 2010 01:35 PMOut of chance I found this blog. I googled "hair ribbons" and found this site. First, I would like to wish you all the best in life. I'm praying for you all.
Upon reading I've realized how special and powerful one's words are. I will carry out her assignments. Not only for Deb and her family and friends, but for myself and the rest of the world. A smile is contagious. With that small bit of knowledge I want to test the world to see a more positive side to life.
I'm young and have a lot to learn. BUT What I already know (and I'm happy to always be reminded) is that you should NEVER FORGET WHO LOVES YOU. My father taught me that, and I see the same phrase in Deb's words.
It is true a single person can change the world. Deb just changed mine. You were all so blessed to have known her. She had such a glorious soul.
Posted by: Laura at June 26, 2010 01:58 AM